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Cheating Spouse Sign 2 Not Allowed to Contact them at Work - If your partner has requested that you no longer visit them or call them at work, there may be a reason other than the boss is strict. Many relationships start in a workplace or perhaps your partner isn't really spending those late hours and long lunch breaks doing innocent things. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 3 Friends and Co-Workers Behave Oddly - Your partner's friends and co-workers may know about a secret relationship, and thus act strangely in your presence because they are uncomfortable with looking you in the eye and lying to you. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 4 Excessive Computer Use - A good deal of cheating takes place right at home over the Internet. Signs to look for are locked screens, your spouse quickly switching screens when you enter a room, or spending excessive time on the computer. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 5 Private Cell Phone Use - Just like the computer, a cell phone can be one of the tools your spouse uses to engage in undisclosed activities. Watch out for secret phone calls and excessive texting. In addition, are they erasing their sent and received call lists, or if you pick up the phone does the caller hang up? If you notice this, look for a phone bill to clarify your suspicions. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 6 Negative Attitude - Typically a cheater will be overly loving and sweet to you in the beginning, but that quickly turns to finding fault with you as your spouse tries to mentally justify his or her immoral actions. Internally they will try to find a way to blame you, when in actuality it was them who made the mistake. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 7 Increasingly Away From Home - Has there been a sudden increase in long hours at work? Does he/she seem to be spending an unusual amount of time with their friends recently? If your spouse isn't making time for you, then perhaps they are making time for someone else. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 8 Indifference in the Home - If your spouse has seemingly lost interest in activities like spending time with the children and maintaining the home, they may be bored with family life and seeking simple pleasures elsewhere. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 9 Changes in Grooming and Appearance - While there are many reasons to want to look and feel better, often times a new lover can be the impetus behind a new hairstyle or sharper attire. |
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Cheating Spouse Sign 10 Physical Signs upon Returning Home - Does your partner avoid eye contact, or rush upstairs to take a shower upon returning home? In addition, take note of their appearance. Lipstick on the collar, unknown perfume or cologne, and disheveled clothing in general could mean your spouse is engaging in extracurricular activities. |
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Still unsure how to tell if your spouse is cheating? We'll give you two more signs of a cheating spouse:
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Missing Wedding Ring - Sometimes we overlook the obvious. Has your spouse stopped wearing their ring(s) recently? Have you given your partner any other jewelry that they are suddenly no longer wearing? |
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Clues in the Car - Some of the many clues you can look for in the car are receipts, cigarette butts, foreign smells, moved passenger seat, changes of clothing in the trunk, unexplained mileage, removal of car seat and other personal effects that may indicate a person is in a relationship. |
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| If you find many items on this list seem all too familiar, don't tip your hand just yet. Confronting a spouse with no proof can backfire, so be prepared to gather evidence and face the facts. |
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